It's essential to recognize that the desire to make something of ourselves is neither out of place nor unusual. Many people want to be recognized as great musicians, successful business owners, or make a significant impact in their chosen fields. Ambition, when rooted in a healthy sense of purpose, can lead to growth and blessing—not just for ourselves but for others as well. However, when our ambitions are driven by self, they can become harmful and destructive.

Having desires isn't random; it's a part of who we are. The real concern should be where these desires are stemming from. Common sources include envy, self-seeking, and coveting. These motives can be subtle and easy to hide, even from ourselves. When desires aren't rooted in your foundation in Christ, they can become extremely destructive.

We are drawn to certain desires or instincts because we were created with a purpose. This purpose entails specific tasks and goals to accomplish.​

Our identities, as well as our tasks and accomplishments, are predetermined before birth. This is revealed to me by Christ's sacrifice and the purpose of reconciliation—restoring us to our original design and identity. Each person is made with purpose and assigned unique tasks. Some individuals find themselves in industries such as food, music, technology, or healthcare. They naturally excel and provide solutions that drive meaningful, positive change. Their accomplishments often inspire awe and raise questions about how they do it.

Problems arise when we pursue our desires relying solely on our own understanding and strength, rather than acknowledging our foundation. To cultivate Christ-centered desires, regularly examine your motivations through prayer and honest reflection. Ask yourself: Is this ambition arising from my identity in Christ, or from a desire to prove myself to others? Seek God’s guidance, allowing the holy spirit to help you discern your path.

A crucial perspective shift is realizing you were created with purpose and identity in Christ. When your desires are aligned with God’s calling, your work—whether in your career, relationships, or service—becomes an avenue for meaningful impact. Rather than chasing recognition, you are empowered to contribute to others and find deep fulfillment. You can live according to your own desires, with no certainty of results, or you can embrace your identity in Christ and live according to God's will and purpose for you.